#monogamish

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Could I Have Been Monogamous for Him?

A podcast question recently hit me hard: "Would you give up non-monogamy for the right person?" It made me revisit a promise I made to my ex—that I could be monogamous just for him. At the time, it felt like a loving sacrifice, but looking back, I wonder if I was just bargaining away a core part of myself to keep the relationship afloat. The truth is, I tried. I really did. But suppressing my desi…

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My partner is camping with another woman, and I’m actually rooting for him. Five years ago, this would have broken me.

It’s wild how much can shift in a few years. Back then, the thought of him sharing a tent with someone else would have sent me spiraling. Now? I’m genuinely excited for him. The jealousy that used to eat me alive has slowly been replaced by something warmer—a quiet thrill that he gets to have this experience. I’m not saying it was an overnight flip. There were plenty of messy conversations, bounda…

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