D/D
Free: - Drug and disease free.
Dildo:
- An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation
of the vagina or the anus.
Director:
- The person who operates a swing club.
Discipline:
- A sexual fetish in which the Dominant partner subjects the willing Submissive
partner to physical punishment. Can range from physical restraint to mild
spankings to painful beatings.
Discretion:
- The exercise of caution among swingers when sending mail or speaking
on the phone so that children, friends or family are not made aware of
swinging activity.
Docile
(Submissive): - Willing to submit to bondage and/or discipline.
Dominant:
- The sexual partner who controls the willing Submissive partner.
English
Culture: - Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning.
Exhibitionist:
- A person who is stimulated by showing sexual parts of his or her body
and enjoys being watched while performing sexual acts.
Facial:
- Cumming on the face.
Fellatio:
- Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth.
Fetish:
- Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects and actions
or non-sexual parts of the body.
Flagellation:
- Sexual stimulation derived from pain - usually spanking or whipping.
French
Culture: - Oral-genital sexual activity.
‘Friends
First’ Swingers: - People who prefer to get to know others before
having sex by engaging in some form of non-sexual activity.
Fun
and Games: - Euphemism for sexual activity.
Gang
Bang:
- One woman having sex with many men.
Group
Room: - Room set aside for group sex - usually with wall to wall mattresses.
Group
Sex: - Sexual activity between three or more people - swinging.
Hard
Core: - A swinging get-together where sexual activity is expected.
Hedonist:
- A individual who lives for pleasure.
Hung:
- Refers to a man with a large penis.
Indoor
Sports: - Refers to swinging activities in general.
Interested
in Friendship: - A swinging relationship that is not limited to sex
but includes social activities as well.
IRL:
- In Real Life - used in ads or online chat.
ISO:
- In Search Of.
Marital
Aids: - Vibrators, dildos, other objects used for sexual pleasure.
Masochism:
- Sexual gratification derived from receiving pain or being humiliated
by others.
Master/Slave:
- Participants in a Bondage and Discipline sexual relationship.
Matroom:
- Room set aside for group sexual activity.
Meet
for Pleasure: - Desire to meet for swinging sex only with no social
or other activity wanted.
Menage
A’ Trois: - Three people in a swinging activity: two of one sex, one
of the other.
NASCA:
- North American Swing Club Association. Promotes swinging as a viable
and beneficial lifestyle.
Newcomers
(Newbies): - First-timers in swinging.
Off-Premise:
- A party or club where people go to meet and greet. No swinging takes
place on the premises.
On-Premise:
- A club where meeting, socializing and swinging can all take place.
Open
Swinging: - All sexual activity takes place in the same room - whether
it be groups or couples.
Orgy:
- Sexual interaction between several men and women in the same room; group
sex.
Party:
- Three or more people getting together for swinging.
Party Clothes:
- Clothing specifically worn to swing parties. Lingerie, robes, etc. that
are revealing and easily removable.
Party House:
- Swing club that has a regular schedule of on-premise swinging parties.
No membership offered or required.
Passive:
- Docile and submissive in swinging.
Play: -
Euphemism for sex or sex play.
Pro: -
Prostitute or paid escort.
Recreational
Swinger: - Someone who practices swinging strictly as a diversion
with no desire for friendship.
Restraint:
- Mild bondage used in acting out sexual fantasies.
Roman:
- Orgies, group sex.
Rubber:
- Sexual stimulation through the use of rubber usually used in B&D. Also,
a condom.
Safe Word:
- Specific word or phrase agreed upon by a couple to let the other know
when level of discomfort experienced in B&D.
Single:
- Swinger without a partner - married or single.
Social:
- Gathering sponsored by swing club or magazine for swingers to meet and
greet. No swinging on premises.
Soft Swinging:
- Same room sex with someone other than partner where all activities may
be experienced with the exclusion of intercourse.
Straight:
- A person not interested in homosexual activity or does not use drugs
- also used by swingers to refer to a non-swinger.
Submissive:
- One who desires to be dominated.
Swapping:
- Two couples exchange partners for sexual activity.
Swing Magazine:
- Caters to the swinging community. Carries personal ads for swingers
wishing to meet like-minded others.
Threesome:
- Two of one sex, one of the other for swinging activity.
Ticket:
- A female brought to a swing party by a male to allow him to gain entrance.
She usually has no intention of participating in sexual activity.
Transvestite:
- A man who is sexually stimulated by wearing woman’s clothing - not necessarily
homosexual.
Versatile:
- Bisexual.
Voyeur:
A person who enjoys watching others engaging in sexual activities.
