Swingers clubs
making a comeback
These
are places where couples come to meet in the hopes of making
a connection.
Back in 1998 police cracked down on these types of places,
saying they were common bawdy houses. Now, swing clubs are
back.
From the outside Bar L'Orage looks like any other bar on
St-Laurent street, but what goes on inside is, to put it
mildly, different.
Strip shows designed to encourage people to get in to the
act - to mingle - all in the hope they`ll meet other couples
and swap partners.
L'Orage
caters to that with rooms that we can't show you. But we
can tell you they come with beds and condoms.
It may sound illegal, but it isn't...really.
''There's no law forbidding swinging. What is illegal is
the common bawdy house and the legal definition of that
is to solicit the public to have sex and we are not doing
that. We are soliciting the public to become members and
when people become members they are not the public anymore.
When they are members we can organize private parties,''
says L'Orage owner Bernard Corbeil.
It wasn't always so easy. In 1998, 40 people were arrested
at L'Orage charged with being in a common bawdy house. These
days police leave swingers alone.
''In the criminal code there's not a wine list of which
sexual activity is legal or not,'' affirms criminal lawyer
Robert Lahaye.
Which means Gilles and Rose are free to go to swingers clubs.
They've been together 18 years, and after the first three
the relationship became stale.
''We had nothing to lose because our relationship was dead.
We discussed swinging and went to some parties. After the
first times we did it, it was hard to talk about it with
each other, but it made us closer than ever,'' said Rose.
Swingers say improving their own relationships is part of
the appeal. This author believes the other part is the fantasy.
''It
allows middle-class people to live in the lifestyle of the
rich and famous,'' insists the author of 'The Lifestyle'
Terry Gould.
Clubs like L'Orage do well. There are roughly four million
swingers in Canada and the United States. In Montreal alone
there are about 20 swingers clubs, and unlike L'Orage most
stay fairly underground.
''They're quite leery of announcing their presence such
that people that didn`t know about them say what`s going
on in there,'' says Gould.
But to some, what goes on in swingers clubs is not the way
to save a troubled relationship.
''It's a kind of thing that works in a very short term,
or it works in a relationship where there is not a lot of
emotional connection,'' says family therapist Vicki Stark.
Swingers don't buy that.
''Love and sex are two different things,'' says Corbeil.
And they say as long as people have fantasies about sex
there will always be clubs like L'Orage where they can live
them out. |