Women Have Fantasies Too
fantasies are an intriguing subject...and not only men have
them. The truth is, women have them too, but they are limited
to three general types. Women can be just as sexual as a
man if he learns what fantasy buttons to push.
order to rouse a woman's fantasies, it takes a little work.
First of all, when you set out to stimulate your partner,
you need to narrow your focus down to the three specific
types of fantasies:
Women with women
2. Women in Control, and
3. Sexually insatiable.
often, when using fantasies, men include the things that
turn themselves on rather than what arouses a woman. Unfortunately,
this is the quickest way to turn a woman off. Women have
specific requirements in their fantasies, primarily, a slow
building pace before and after the sex act.
a matter of fact, the non-sexual touching is equally arousing
to a woman. When using fantasies with your partner, pay
close attention to the core elements in each of the types
listed below and include those details during fantasy talk.
one: Women with Women. This fantasy is alluring to women
because its primary activities consists of two aspects of
sex that women crave: oral satisfaction and tenderness.
The key to this fantasy is slow seduction. It begins with
caressing and holding, builds to passionate, mutual orgasms,
and finishes the way it began-tenderly.
Two: Women in Control. The central theme in this fantasy
is a woman who has the power to make her partner cum. This
is the woman who plays the controlling seductress whether
it's through the role of dominatrix, exhibitionist, or any
number of controlling women roles that turn a man on. Her
arousal comes from watching a man lose his control to her.
Three: Sexually Insatiable. Unlike the other two types of
fantasies, this one is more "manly" because the
focus is on the sex act. Common themes in these fantasies
are: engaging in forbidden love, oral sex, multiple orgasms,
orgies, public sex, and anything involving sexually adventurous
easiest way to begin is to start out slowly. You might,
for instance, bring up the topic of sexual fantasies. All
you need to say is, "Which of the following three would
turn you on more? At that time, mention the fantasies above.
The mere act of talking about it will arouse her.
if you want to turn your partner on through sexual fantasies,
all you have to do is start talking about the subject. It
may be a slow process, but it's guaranteed to create an
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